dating an ex - Page 2 - United Bimmer Community

**bakaroo** · 11-06-2006, 01:01 PM

For me, it'd depend on why they broke up with me in the first place.

However, I'd probably go with no.

Or you do the whole dating thing to see if she changed as opposed to jumping right back in.

**215BIMMER535** · 11-06-2006, 07:18 PM

DONT DO IT!! i had a crazy ex that has changed my perspective on that shit completely. i used to be the king of goin back for seconds with old flames but man i tell ya this girl had a way of pretending to be different and then just fuckin me over worse each time. and by the way have u stopped to think about how many girls there are out there? more than a few! haha

craig · 11-06-2006, 07:29 PM

then you obviously dont know tribune. there are only "a few" and shes the best one.

**BMWLotAttendant** · 11-07-2006, 02:08 AM

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Originally Posted by craig

i compleatly agree. LOL. we were in witchita friday and saturday, should have stoped by the hotel and joined in on the fun. lol. and i think thats why she wants to get back together with me is because we went on a trip to witchita together and we were having a ton of fun with each other and thats what kicked up that spark again. she said she broke up with me because she thought we should be just friends when we were dating, but when she was with me in witchita she didnt feel like "just friends"

Craig, I'm telling you.....you know and I know she's hott and she's one of the "few"....try it once more and see what happens. Just be yourself and do your thing. Treat her good, spoil her....and see how she responds. If she reciprocates the same feelings for you....you're go to go!

AND....why didn't you stop by the BMW dealership!

! I was there ALL DAY! I would have talked with you for awhile....it would have been cool! Next time!

**celsdogg** · 11-07-2006, 07:08 AM

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Originally Posted by c1apton

"If you go to the fridge and the milk has gone bad, going back later isn't going make it better"

+1

craig · 11-07-2006, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by BMWLotAttendant

Craig, I'm telling you.....you know and I know she's hott and she's one of the "few"....try it once more and see what happens. Just be yourself and do your thing. Treat her good, spoil her....and see how she responds. If she reciprocates the same feelings for you....you're go to go!

AND....why didn't you stop by the BMW dealership!

! I was there ALL DAY! I would have talked with you for awhile....it would have been cool! Next time!

i didnt even think of stoping by the dealer ship! lol. oh well, i go there once a year(or more) so ill be back.

**Chris** · 11-20-2006, 04:04 AM

elise and i still get into it a couple times a month ofver how she still despises me for breaking up with her..... the pain will always be there, and will always linkger.

**CAPiTUL** · 11-20-2006, 06:35 PM

I ditto what Clapton said.

Beyond that I say:
Do you have kids together? No? Then - NO!

Let me throw this out there:
She left you and you weren't/aren't 100% sure why. Maybe she dumped you to go have some extra cizock on the side. Maybe she didn't like your backshot and wanted to have relations with some strange man from the local bar. Maybe she left and had a 3 some with two dudes stuffing her simultaneously and felt tied down by the relationship she was in with you. Maybe she wanted to spit but you preferred otherwise. maybe she slept around behind your back whilst you didn't know and felt guilty and so decided to leave. Without knowing for 100% certain, these are all posibilities. How do you feel thinking about your then woman leaving you because she wanted to take it in the stink, the pink, and the drink all at the same time??? Again, without knowing for 100% certain, these are all possibilities.

Don't be deceived by a nice looking piece of arse. If that is what you are worried about you are getting into a RELATIONSHIP for the wrong reasons. If you just wanted to beat it a few times, that is one thing. But you are talking about a relationship.

I say - She dogged you once and probably dogged the dude she was just with in order to open up an option for you. I'd stay away.

I'll throw this out there - how long have you been separated? how many chicks have you dated since then? how many chicks have you been in a RELATIONSHIP with since then?

In closing - Have more respect for yourself, chin up, and walk away like a man. You supplicate now, and you are inviting yourself to be used as a welcome matt.