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death you do not need to go buy clothes like kenneth cole. go with the style that suits your personality. there are girls that will like all sorts of different looks. what you need to do is increase your self confidence. once you do that you will be in a much better position. dont worry about being rejected. just keep swinging the bat. if you never swing you will never hit a home run. especially dont worry over one girl if shit does not work out. it will make you seem needy and girls do not like that. act like you dont give a shit. not like an asshole but like you could care less if they dont give you the time of day.
no i didn't mean it like that. Remember he's 16. He's not supposed to have a budget. he can't afford $40 for a shirt. If he can good for him, but he isn't expected to wear an $800 suit. When you get older that's when people raise the expectations and the cost. Personally I am a computer guy, I wear jeans 5 days a week and a t-shirt most of the time. I get by on my talent and my level of talent allows me to dictate what I wear to work. I occasionally make a concession and dress up for clients.
sorry, didn't mean to be critical there. Wow, I also had no idea he was 16. ... I feel very old now..8 years older! jms, I agree with you, if he is that young, then expensive clothing is def. going to foul up the plans. However, at that age, dressing up too formal is also a bad idea...he should just sorta follow what the other kids are wearing...but he should realize that he has one advantage over them...he is driving a BMW. Death, you should take pride in the fact that you are already so knowledgeable about cars at 16! and can probably beat the shit out of them if it came to racing day. Get that confident aura (you know something and you are not clueless like the rich punks in hs)around you, and high school chicks will fall for you. Act about 2 years older than you are and you should be set. Its easy, just needs a little bit of practice, and you are young dude, what the hell are you so worried about? Life is so free of responsibilities for you now, you have no idea. Stop sulking around and go out and enjoy yourself. Make a goal like within the next month, ask at least 6-8 chicks out, be it ugly or hot looking, shouldnt matter, you decide after you get the YES'. Also try to spread it out, go to a diner and if you like some out, just start up some conversation, and see how things go. Note: start a conversation usually when there aren't people waiting behind you... like walmart or subway etc. Restaurants work great, so give that a shot. Don't ask her out for dinner too, just say, Hey this was fun, wanna get some coffee sometime? Remember the more serious you act, the easily chicks run away. Just do this for the next month, and hit us back with the results. Need more info, use aim and get in touch with me, the screen name is in my profile. Now get out there champ, and try it out...you have 4 weeks to justify the 7 pages we have filled up for you Good luck!