Getting mad cold feet! - United Bimmer Community

**jrhaile** · 08-08-2005, 10:23 PM

So my wedding is exactly 43 days and I'm totally freaking out! The last few weekend's I've been out partying and drinking and having a total blast! I haven't been able to do this stuff really since I was a sophmore in High School

I feel like I missed out on something! Now me and the fiance are already arguing about money (we don't even live together yet) and other random bullshit stuff and it's freaking me out to the point that I'm seriously calling this whole fiasco off! I love her to death, but she is psycho sometimes and it scares me to the point of just hoping in the bimmer and finding the quickest way out of town. I don't want to share my money with her or my things at all. I don't want to have to be responsible for her and make sure she can get her nails done and shit. She works but doesn't make a fraction of what I do. I'll be taking on all the bills pretty much and this really really sucks. Is this normal for me to feel like this with still 43 days to go? I'm confused and don't know what to do...

witeshark · 08-08-2005, 10:26 PM

Wow. That is a lot of pressure. I guess just taking some time to unwind... I guess...

DEATH2000 · 08-08-2005, 10:26 PM

Dont worry bout it man, just talk to her and tell her whats going on. And remeber sign a pre-nup, the last thing u want is her taking ur BMW if u ever split up.

**jrhaile** · 08-08-2005, 10:28 PM

Pre-nubs don't work in the state of Washington. It's bullshit. Half of my shit is hers no matter what. That's another thing that is scary. She could fucking take my bimmer. I would seriously murder that bitch if we got a divorce and she went after my car. Oh and now she's talking about getting her masters. Who the fuck is going to pay for that? She's getting it in a field which only employs 54 in Spokane. She'll NEVER get a job doing what she wants to do!

**e30boarder** · 08-08-2005, 10:28 PM

hahaha... yeah man dont let the beamer go

DEATH2000 · 08-08-2005, 10:29 PM

Just talk to her man, tell her whats up. you have no idea how bad i wanna talk to Vicky )my ex) and tell her how i feel and how much i miss her, and that im a big immiture idiot.

**e30boarder** · 08-08-2005, 10:30 PM

i totally agree with death^

**jrhaile** · 08-08-2005, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by DEATH2000

Just talk to her man, tell her whats up. you have no idea how bad i wanna talk to Vicky )my ex) and tell her how i feel and how much i miss her, and that im a big immiture idiot.

Dude women are a cancer that never lets go. Sucks you for all you are and all you're worth until you die a miserable death. Listen to this, we've been doing to pre-maritial counceling too.. I don't think it's helping LOL!!!

DEATH2000 · 08-08-2005, 10:36 PM

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Originally Posted by e30boarder

i totally agree with death^

i hope u dont mean on the immiture idiot part.

And jhraile, counslling never helps shit. Not all women are like that, Vicky never was, several girls i know arent. I hope it works out for ya, if it doesnt come to Calgary and we'll chill.

**e30boarder** · 08-08-2005, 10:36 PM

nooo... i was serious dude

**jrhaile** · 08-08-2005, 10:38 PM

I'm thinking about running for the border. And up until recently she all of a sudden wants to have kids. FUCK THAT. I hate kids with a passion. Now she wants to have them before she's 30 which is 7 years away and too close imo. That's it. I'm done. Calling this shit off!

**e30boarder** · 08-08-2005, 10:38 PM

its hard to find true love man... if it is, just try to work it out. it still might be real rough

DEATH2000 · 08-08-2005, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by jrhaile

I'm thinking about running for the border. And up until recently she all of a sudden wants to have kids. FUCK THAT. I hate kids with a passion. Now she wants to have them before she's 30 which is 7 years away and too close imo. That's it. I'm done. Calling this shit off!

Before u do anything rash, think. I hate kids with a fucking passion to, but Nicole says im good with kids so i dunno. Lots of women plan there futures like that. Nicole has her wedding jewlrey picked out and has already planned to have 2 kids. You fiance says she wants to have kids before shes 30, which as u say id 7 years away so thats not to bad.

**94bmw325i** · 08-08-2005, 10:57 PM

how long have you been going out with her for?

DEATH2000 · 08-08-2005, 11:00 PM

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Originally Posted by 94bmw325i

how long have you been going out with her for?

If that was directed at me, me and Nicole arent going out. shes just a friend of mine (see thread below), that was just stuff she told me. lots of women have things like their weddings and how many kids there gonn have long before they even are old enough to get married.

http://www.unitedbimmer.com/forums/thread2969.html