Getting mad cold feet! - Page 2 - United Bimmer Community

**94bmw325i** · 08-08-2005, 11:07 PM

oh no my bad death, was for james.

**BaLAnCe17** · 08-08-2005, 11:08 PM

JR tell your GF or fiance exactly what your telling us. make a document about if you get divorced she doesnt get your car. and have her sign it lol. im no master w/ girls or anything, no guy is. tell her exactly how you feel. tell her that you dont want to pay for all of that stuff and talk it out lol. ..........or just ignore all of this i wrote :P (exept the document part)

**xsperf** · 08-09-2005, 12:08 AM

i dont think she can take your car if its in YOUR name, and if she does and your a little edgy, dont you dare get married b/c unfortunetely even if you resolve the problem now, most likely down the road something might happen

**xsperf** · 08-09-2005, 12:10 AM

oh yeah, and if you call it off, you dont gotta skip town, its your town as much as it is hers, and if she is being an idiot let her be, not ur fault, and lastly think about it b/c ull have to deal w/her for the rest of your life(of course this is all if you havent already called it off)

nick_318is · 08-09-2005, 12:28 AM

Dude i'm gonna agree with the others, tell her how you feel, maybe she will completly understand, maybe she wont. Chances are you will feel a lot better about it just getting it off your chest to her. I was all about this girl who used to go out with my best friend and was a good friend of mine, i finally told her how i felt and oh god it felt so good, even though she was a total idiot and said she couldn't do it. Talked to her sister and she said yea she probably made a mistake and will regret it. Anyway to make my story short i'm over it (i hope) and am moving on. But in your case I say get it out there and hopefully you 1. feel better, 2. let her know how you feel, and 3. she understands and backs off some.

**komodo** · 08-09-2005, 12:33 AM

It's normal to be nervous, but this might be a bit more than most cases. My suggestion is to talk about her, and maybe delay the wedding another month or so and make sure things get better. If you're planning on spending everyday for the rest of your life with her, one more month should be more than reasonable.

**Hoppy** · 08-09-2005, 12:51 AM

am i the only one who thinks that you shouldnt get married, i mean, if you even have these thoughts u shouldnt do it.

**BaLAnCe17** · 08-09-2005, 01:36 AM

dude. doesnt everyone one get cold feet and "omg i cant do it" if its something that can be talked out then do it. if it doesnt work. then you know to call it off

**LandoAWD** · 08-09-2005, 09:25 AM

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Originally Posted by jrhaile

I'm thinking about running for the border. And up until recently she all of a sudden wants to have kids. FUCK THAT. I hate kids with a passion. Now she wants to have them before she's 30 which is 7 years away and too close imo. That's it. I'm done. Calling this shit off!

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Originally Posted by jrhaile

Pre-nubs don't work in the state of Washington. It's bullshit. Half of my shit is hers no matter what. That's another thing that is scary. She could fucking take my bimmer. I would seriously murder that bitch if we got a divorce and she went after my car. Oh and now she's talking about getting her masters. Who the fuck is going to pay for that? She's getting it in a field which only employs 54 in Spokane. She'll NEVER get a job doing what she wants to do!

You are far to immature to even have a girlfriend, much less a wife.

Make sure you call it off so you don't end up a divorce statistic.

Marriage is about compromise, understanding, and love. You seem to have none of those.

**jrhaile** · 08-09-2005, 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by LandoAWD

You are far to immature to even have a girlfriend, much less a wife.

Make sure you call it off so you don't end up a divorce statistic.

Marriage is about compromise, understanding, and love. You seem to have none of those.

Exactly! Looks like it's off! Yes!! I called her parents and her and told them I'm done.

**LandoAWD** · 08-09-2005, 01:09 PM

Shouldn't you call her as well?

DEATH2000 · 08-09-2005, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by jrhaile

Exactly! Looks like it's off! Yes!! I called her parents and her and told them I'm done.

Wow james. holy shit man, do u mean the weddings off or the whole relationship? and if u need a place to chill come to Calgary,

**komodo** · 08-09-2005, 01:22 PM

You told them over the phone? o_O

witeshark · 08-09-2005, 01:26 PM

It may be for the best. I have seen marriages all around me that just go straight to hell

**xsperf** · 08-09-2005, 01:58 PM

dont worry james, if you get married eventually, and then u get divorced and someone tries to take ur bimmer, ill murder em for you.. lol i got yo back.. haha