Stupid wants to leave - United Bimmer Community

**Dudesky** · 06-24-2006, 08:55 PM

My inept aunt says she wants to leave the house. Like I care; she's been freeloading off me and my sister (the owners) for 2yrs now. I got really pissed at her for leaving washed dishes on the kitchen counter. She says I'm so hard on her, that there was no room in the dish rack for them. That she's really trying, and all I have to do is show her how I want things around the house; that getting upset isn't necessary.

She's a grown woman, it'd be silly for me to have to tell her to empty out the dish rack, no??

She'll empty out the garbage in the kitchen, but leave the bag on the floor next to the can. Why can't she take it straight out of the house? Last week, she almost burned the house down when she ran the toaster, microwave, and the coffee machine all at the same time, on the same circuit. The whole house smelled like an electrical fire, says she didn't notice the smell. And she's still pissed at me because I yelled at her for leaving my projection screen on all night while she was sleeping away.

I mean, is it me or what? Let her leave. Good riddance. Fucking retard.

**celsdogg** · 06-24-2006, 09:41 PM

i hope she goes. mooch.

witeshark · 06-24-2006, 10:20 PM

What an annoying mooch! You were nice to let her stay - least she can do is respect your place and things

**Hoppy** · 06-24-2006, 11:27 PM

if you want il come down and evict her..... and move in...

**Cellardoor** · 06-25-2006, 12:36 AM

if she isnt paying rent or actualy helping around the house i say give her the boot or make her ass start paying some rent!

-Hutch-

**brien4787** · 06-25-2006, 03:16 AM

if she really is freeloading.... tell her to get out... she might act mad, but it isn't the wrong thing to do.

**Dudesky** · 06-25-2006, 06:11 AM

My father passed away back in '98. My mother got sick a few years ago, and because she no longer had the capacity to manage the house and her finances, ownership of the house was transferred to us. That's when my aunt moved in, figuring that my dad was gone, and my mom wasn't capable of refusing her. I wasn't living here at the time, so I had no idea what was going on. But she basically took advantage of the situation. She bitched when we finally forced her to start paying rent- a mere $250/mo. She eats our food, which isn't covered in that rent.

She's got a bad gambling habit, and that rent money gets in the way of her weekends in Atlantic City. She can't even set foot in Vegas anymore, because she screwed loan sharks out there years ago. It had gotten so bad that when my grandmother went senile, my aunt took over her house and sold it from right under everyones noses.

Personally, I don't mind or care about her stupidity, everybody has a right to be what they are and choose not to improve themselves. But when it becomes an inconvenience for me, I get pissed. I just don't have the time or patience to treat a 65yr old woman like a 12yr old who doesn't know any better. Don't get me wrong- I have the utmost respect for elders, but I also believe respect is earned- you gotta have done something with your life to deserve it.

/rant

**c1apton** · 06-25-2006, 06:56 AM

Dsky - like you said, she's a grown woman & you don't need to babysit her. She's using your ass - especially in the rent area. Plus you're accomodating her gambling problem. I'd give her 30 days notice - Cya.

If she can afford to gamble, she can afford to live in her own place.

witeshark · 06-25-2006, 11:12 AM

On a quick off topic, I have to say that's funny that she can't go to Vegas anymore

**defkon99** · 06-25-2006, 06:28 PM

Yea ive been in the same situation with my OLDER Step brother , and well if it gets to be too much let um go! Its for the best!

**TJsBimm** · 06-25-2006, 06:42 PM

BU bye Biiiiiiiiiaaaaaaaaaaatccchhhh! That sucks dudesky i'd feel how you do right now if i had to deal with that situation. Lazy ass freeloader, don't let her step all over you like that.

**DEATH2000** · 06-25-2006, 07:11 PM

Wow..... i woulda kicked her out a LONG time ago.

**94bmw325i** · 06-25-2006, 10:57 PM

wo a freeloader cant be good, drop kick her off the porch right on her ass. I thought that would look funny...

drz · 06-29-2006, 01:44 PM

Respect is earned. Managing not to die does not earn you respect.

**EnvyM3** · 06-29-2006, 02:05 PM

Dudesky you have let this go on for a year and a half too long. Kick that freeloadin bitch to the curb.

**Dudesky** · 06-29-2006, 02:21 PM

I'd love to kick her out. The trouble is, my sister is part of the problem- she seems to think she needs my aunt around. She forgets that we did just fine (maybe even better) w/o her. But my sister will never ask me for what she needs, even tho I keep telling her to just let me know. And she mistakes my aunt's sucking up to her as being helpful

Well anyways, my aunt is supposed to leave for the Phillippines to retire there in about a year. And since the incident, she's been trying to be nice to me, so I'll see how things go and reassess things later . . . hopefully she doesn't destroy or burn the house down in the meantime

**celsdogg** · 06-29-2006, 03:34 PM

^^^ idk. . .

**DEATH2000** · 06-29-2006, 04:15 PM

I say just kick her out. its for the better

**01Mike330i** · 06-29-2006, 04:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by c1apton

Dsky - like you said, she's a grown woman & you don't need to babysit her. She's using your ass - especially in the rent area. Plus you're accomodating her gambling problem. I'd give her 30 days notice - Cya.

If she can afford to gamble, she can afford to live in her own place.

Couldn't have said it any better. Adios!

**c1apton** · 06-29-2006, 04:55 PM

Dsky, you need to do a DIY on "How to get rid of a free-loader"

You know, old engine oil in her coffee, rearrange her personal shit... maybe she'll retire sooner...