i understand about the jewelry, our anniversary is on valentines day, 9 years married bro. she has just in the last couple of years gotten into a little bit of gardening, so i plan to get her a botany lesson at the conservatory we have here. after that i am all out of ideas for gifts for her. at x-mas i got her a palm pilot and she loved it. but the next gift i get her is going to have to come from the heart of the ub members.