Originally Posted by komodo
The way I see it, why should you stop treating them so well when you get married? They choose to spend the rest of their lives with you, the least you can do is occasionally make them feel like they're worth your time.
If a girl falls in love with you and chooses to marry you, they're basing that decision on how you act when you're still dating.... if you immediately change after you get married and stop doing all the "nice" things, it'll leave the marriage dry and almost disappointing.
I'm being very harsh there (sorry), and I know there's a lot more to it, however that's my take on it anyway.
If you still believe all that once you are married, then you will make someone a fine hubby someday. I don't disagree with you, in fact, I plan to treat my woman as well as I do now once I am married. I do all that "sweet" stuff now which is probably why guys like you and I never have problems getting ladies. You may have problems with ladies but I wouldn't think so. Based on the assumption that if you do those things, you probably don't have any problems.
I just think it's nice to get away from the woman once in a while so what better way than a day at the spa