Let me explain a little something...... If you are going to drang a man out of his house at 11:30 at night after a shitty day at work in the POURING rain with the promise of a 3some that u swear will go through and that u "just have to see him" dont back out and then have your friend that u roped into the idea be the only one to follow through! yea its a bit of a downer for said guy. also if u do decide to back out of it dont sit in the room makeing commentary about everything in the room like john fuckin madden! ok im done ranting sorry for makeing this a broad target at all women i retract that part.