Originally Posted by projal147
i see no problem with becoming intimate with a guy if you love him. sex is a thing that God created as pleasure for us and to procreate. I dont believe in the use of contraception, but sex is part of our nature and we cant fight our feelings. if you end up after a romatic night on the town back at you place of his place and things just start connecting (i.e. begin to cuddle.. kiss.. etc.) then id say go for it. no reason to stop.
well you may not even have to be thinking like your going to marry the guy. i used to have a no strings attached, friends with benefits relationship a year or so ago, until the girl changed colleges.. (but she was a blast) whenever i/we got drunk we usually ended up in bed together at the end of the night and in the morning we just went about our merry ways.
but my advice basically is not to fight your feelings.
and harry im not trying to be an ass, im just curious of the type of response ill get and how hard core these people are.