If you really don't want to pay for the HM2s and are having trouble deciding on other rims then save your money for the six months it will take for the SSRs and inbetween now and then do something else to your car (i.e. shark injection, exhaust, anything)
That way you will have the rims you really want, and some other cool stuff for your car.
e36 forever, e46 never!
-Matt