lol, thanks, i found the thread starter! i did go to the dealer and they said it would be $500 to replace with a new wiring harness but then im afraid the same thing will happen since its just replacing with a new one! im not sure about the other possibilities u refer to but it could be that something is coming on in the night but i never notice that and that wouldnt explain why it sometimes just happens when i get into my car from the store and it could be dead, then i jumpstart it and it could be fine for a week or two and not happen the whole time! i guess is what im wondering is if something can cause it to just suddenly be dead and not start then be fine after it is jumped! i dont recall but my mom said she seems to think that it happens after i have washed my car or had the doors opened for too long, i think it may be when i open and shut the trunk so im trying to not mess with the trunk and see what happens!! it is going to the shop on monday for an oil change and tune up so maybe he can figure something out! i will post to let everyone know so it may help someone else! thanks!