I know it'll all work out, it'll just take time. Most of the time, I have patience with this car. Maybe not when I talk about it, but when I work on it.
I called the dealer guy, Bill, I described to him my situation. You know, rough idle, all hoses back together, leaks from the injectors and the cylinder head/intake gasket, a puddle of fuel under the car 3 foot by 5 foot... he also told me it could be that the pressure regulator could be stuck open. He said to not replace the injectors, but replace every other seal and gasket you can find.
For now until after vacation, my car will sit in the garage without an intake on it. Hopefully it'll get fixed soon after that.