that sucks man. Handling is probably awesome though! My car looks ok lowered like 1.3 - 1.4" I got the uuc stage 3 a while ago and it is still easy to drive, etc. A bit firmer, but nothing extreme, and I dont bottom out too much.
Some pics would be cool though. It also seems that anyone with aftermarket suspension loses their splitters. If I had another car I would have put coilovers on my car, they are ftw.