well guys, i have the extra $$ to buy a passport 8500 X50 radar detector. I know i prob should get one because i like to push the car not to mention being a 21 year old guy in a black BMW M3 (a cops wet dream

) but at the same time im worried that when i get one ill get a false sense of security and get raped by a laser or somethin like that..... so anyone with a nice radar detector (or not) let me know what u think. i think that since im aware of the danger i should b ok but im just a little apprehensive. HELP!
-Hutch-