well yes i'm not saying that one day they just say, what the hell why not be gay... and i do agree that it has to do with their heritage/ upbringing. that has an effect. i'm just saying that people aren't born destined to be gay. and even if someone has homosexual tendancies, there are things you can do to help those. This is just IMO, i'm no expert and don't claim to be, i haven't spent near as much time on this subject as others.