A: I think that you going should be a great thing and something you try to do. I also think that if you can't get out there then the reasons are understandable and there is nothing bad about it, just a "sorry I couldn't make it".
I'd try to make it just cause i'm too self sacrificing.
Q: Should I go to the store and junk out and watch movies all night or should I get dressed and go to dinner and a movie with family.